1. The Right Girl
If you think some rock
band is gonna host a performance to let you know you’re in love boss, you know
right away you’re acting dumb. That isn’t happening unless you’re a chocolate
boy doing some reel life role. Neither will you find any girl with her forehead
flashing brightly “oh I’m perfect for you”. The moment you feel like
holding her hand even if in public, sharing with her your wildest dreams or
expressing your hidden fears and pain, believe me you’ve been trapped. No bait
can get you to another trap. And this is the trap of your very own love. Taking
time to validate it is a fine idea though.
2. The Right Time
Love brings hastiness in
us. Isn’t it? The moment you realize you are in love, you go hoo-ha over it and
feel like climbing to some rock and shouting on top of it – “I LOVE YOU”. Some
people do that and perhaps there is no real great joy in reliving the proposal.
It passes away with the blink of an eye. And had we done that too, it would
take us to a lifelong foolishness. Love is something special, however its
acknowledging has to be more special than the feeling itself. In the
spur-of-the-moment, hence, no action must be taken. Everything needs to be
planned, although your girl must be quiet aware of your cheeky smiles, when
entering the “L” zone for the first time. Keep her guessing when you’d be up to
it. Let her be inquisitive and in a sort of darkness before you finally let it
flow out; for this darkness and uncertainty will make her feel taken aback and
possibly that you don’t love her and may be you’re never gonna make it. And
then comes the right time to surprise her and take her to a visit to the heaven.
Nevertheless do not push
the time too long or she will be turned her off.
3.
The Right Dress
Nobody loves to miss the
sensuous feel and hence, a right dress at a right time is must. Gift her some
outfit in advance, something you’d love to see on her. And plan your look
accordingly; for you do not want to look Govinda in yellow pants dating a Marilyn Monroe.
4.
The Right Journey
The start has to be
aesthetic to win “Leonardo Da Vinci” title. Compliment her as soon as you guys
meet and whatever mode of transport you opt, make sure to comfort her. If
you’re choosing a car, let your hand-picked songs play the witty yet emotional
game and drool over her feelings. Amidst the songs, hold her hand and ask how
is she feeling at the moment? Trust me, you will win over her. And if it’s a
2-wheeler, check on your speed. It’s not a racing tournament but a date.
5.
The Right Ambiance
Your first date is a
life time memory and I am sure no one loves to remember simply ordinary things.
From music to the decor, it has to be oh-my-God. Go for soft instrumental
music, a table for two decorated with scented petals and a thick candle in
between and if she is someone who amazes at firework, do include it in your
day. Don’t overdo with anything especially balloons and flowers but make it a
worthwhile moment. If she looks at it and feels
its-the-most-beautiful-moment, she is gonna follow you all her life just as a
favour for this moment.
6.
The Right Food And Drink
Lads are indeed better
in checking out the likes and dislikes of lasses; but for those who don’t do
that might me a trouble. Well, know the dishes she relish before hand and order
that without asking her. This trick will show you as a witty monster but she
would love that undoubtedly. Talking about drinks, it doesn’t always have to be
alcohol but fruit champagne at times makes a day sober and royal. Isn’t it?
7.
The Right Words
A feeling is justified
if it is expressed beautifully. Anyone can say “I love you” but very few can
say “I don’t promise to make you happy 24*7 but I can promise to love you
24*7.”
8.
The Right Moment
Let her gulp down the
proposal and feel it’s in reality; never ever leave the place in a jiffy after
the big announcement. Spend quality time knowing her desires, dreams, interests
and share yours too- if you have not done yet.
9.
The Right Leave-Taking
Drop her home or
somewhere safe and don’t just say bye and let her go. That’s not chivalry
teaches you. Tell her to text you after being home and that you’d love to see
her again.
10.
The Right Goodbye For The Day
Don’t forget to let her
know how much you enjoyed being with her and that she is the most beautiful
girl you’ve ever met. Be honest, in this case if she isn’t someone with a
pretty face, you can always cling onto her beautiful heart and things you love
about her.
