It is said that if you speak the truth, you don't have to remember it. But if you speak lies, you fall prey in your own trap. This is what happened to Arvind Kejriwal, he got fed up with his own lies and pretending to be a mango man; hence, he came out with his real face. Watch this video of Arvind Kejriwal and Punya Prasun and see the real face of ex Delhi CM.
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Thursday, 13 March 2014
Arvind Kejriwal falls in his own trap- must watch.
It is said that if you speak the truth, you don't have to remember it. But if you speak lies, you fall prey in your own trap. This is what happened to Arvind Kejriwal, he got fed up with his own lies and pretending to be a mango man; hence, he came out with his real face. Watch this video of Arvind Kejriwal and Punya Prasun and see the real face of ex Delhi CM.
Sunday, 2 March 2014
Is cric full of business or biz full of cricket?
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The excitement viewers and fans offer is nothing more than
a business deal for these match fixers. You will not only be surprised to know
the fact that all the matches you thought were crispy and twisty were in fact
some frozen food being served to you hot. I know it's really heart breaking to
be cheated this way by people we considered to be stars; but our stars are
saying that they play for BCCI. So is BCCI all messed up just for money and is the
perceived national game of India all about money?
Whatever crap they offer on being questioned, shit will be
shit and certainly we are not going to take anyone's shit. If cricket is all
about bookies playing a game, what role are cricketers sticking to? Booking
bookies a hotel room or a front seat in stadium. I believe that we have Bollywood
which is pretty enough for the fixed action and drama we love and we don't want
our country's sports especially cricket to be synonymous to such predetermined
actions. We want real time highs and lows. Losing a match is acceptable to us,
the Indians, but winning a fixed match is not at all palpable.
This mystery of who is/was involved seems will not be
solved so easily. Looks like cricket got clean bowled in “ a national sport”
category but played a fair century for “a national business” title.
Jai Ho.
दीवाना इश्क़ तेरा (Diwana Ishq tera)
खुदा का है एक एहसान मुझ पर; जो दिया है एक एहसास तेरा.मिलवा कर मुजसे; बताया उसने कोई है मेरे लिए भी.
कहते है होते हैं सब अलग; फिर तू मुजसा कैसे?
मुजसा जो तू है, तो मुजसे जुदा कैसे?
खामोश है यह दिल;कहूँ तो क्या कहु.
अक्सर आसमान को देख के सोचती हू -
क्या राज़ है जो चाँद मे भी है अक्स तेरा?
क्या ये प्यार है या है एक भर्म मेरा?
उदास है चेहरा मेरा; नम है अश्क मेरे
हस्सते है लभ फिर भी, जब दिखता है इश्क़ तेरा.
खुदा वो है जिससे हम जानते हैं ओर विश्वास वो है जिससे हम मानते हैं
तो आ मिले इन्न हवाओं मे, तो आ दिखे इन्न सितारो मे,
तो आ महसूस करे दूण्या - एक दूसरे मे,
तो आ मिले कुछ इस तरह, जिसे पहले ना देखा हो ज़माने ने!
Khuda ka hai ek ehsaan mujh par; Jo dia hai ek ehsaas tera.
Milwa kar tuje mujse; Bataya usne koi hai mere liye bhi.
Kehte hai hote hain sab alag;Fir tu mujsa kaise?
Mujsa jo tu hai, toh mujse judaa kaise?
Khamosh hai yeh dil; kahun to kya kahu.
Aksar aasman ko dekh ke
sochti hu -
Kya raaz hai jo chand me bhi hai aks tera?
Kya ye pyar hai ya hai ek bharm mera?
Udaas hai chehra mera; namm hai ashq mere
Hasste hai labh fir bhi, jab dikkhta hai ishq tera.
Khuda vo hai jisse hum jaante hain
Or Vishwas vo hai jisse hum maante hain
To aa mile inn hawao me,
to aa dikhe inn sitaro me,
to aa mehsoos kare dunya - ek dusre me,
to aa mile kuch iss tarah,
jise pehle na dekha ho zamane
ne!
Friday, 28 February 2014
Why to ban freedom in a democratic India (section 377) ?
Since 1991, the year I
was born, protests have been initiated to decriminalize the section 377 of the
Indian Penal Code; it startles me that the fight is still going on, even after
22 years.
Being a protagonist of the
human rights, I strongly believe in the conviction that people have an absolute
right to choose their lifestyle, sexuality and their sex – partner. A relieving
moment, it was, to comprehend the judgement of 2nd July, 2009 by Delhi High
Court upholding the concept of “inclusiveness” in the Indian Society and hence
legalizing the rights of the homosexuals; but its non-acceptance by Supreme
Court last year, is saddening and has left a stain on its basic understanding
of a citizen as an individual.
Laws are of the people,
by the people and for the people – every citizen counts when we refer “the people”-
therefore, the law makers ought to be empathetic and respectful towards the
needs, choices and rights of every citizen; including only the majority while
sweeping away the rights of minorities, will not create a flawless rule, in
fact it shall defeat the very purpose of justice.
Criminalizing the
non-consensual sex is indeed the significant aspect of the Section 377 but punishing
the homosexuals as “deviants” and taking away their right to consensual
intercourse with a same sex partner and wanting them to choose a heterosexual
partner under the pretext of “the order of nature”, as mentioned in the section
377, is building nothing but a discriminated and closed society. Hence, we need
to wave off the 153 year old British ideology and embrace the broad concept of
“individualism” in the light of articles 14, 15, 21 and 26 of the Constitution
of India and thereby set an “equal and just” society.
Just because we have not witnessed this culture before can in no way can become a reason for resisting it even now. Although the older generation and some of the youngsters may find it a little weird to accept it but then we need to be mature and open to receiving newness in our culture and sexuality as well. Besides, by not accepting the individuality of gay community, we are somehow in a way promoting hardness amongst our people, where would they go and how will they respect their country and it's constitution which boasts personal freedom and rights. I don't think freedom is a passport only for a few. It has to be same and in equal extent for everyone; then why are the law-makers and law-interpreters are trying to alter the meaning of freedom? I'd want to as them – Is it right to make LGBTs feel alien in their own nation? Is a law
worthy enough if it doesn't recognize the rights of your own people? Should there be any law at all to impose the sexuality on any damn citizen?
Let us just imagine a society respecting and accepting each other as they are and not trying to interfere unnecessarily through the means of law or whatever. I hope that is what Rabindranath Tagore had imagined or tried to imagine when he wrote- " Into that heaven of freedom". I, thus, support the
decriminalization of the section 377 of The Indian Penal Code and I would like
to conclude with - “Discrimination is antithesis of equality and that it is the
recognition of equality which will foster the dignity of every individual.” *
(*Line of ruling of Delhi HC Judgement)
(Article 14 –
Equality before Law
Article 15 –
Prohibition of discrimination on grounds of
religion, race,
Caste, sex, place of
birth.
Article 21 –
Protection of life and personal
liberty
Article 26 –
Freedom of expression)
Monday, 24 February 2014
1HOUR = NO WHATSAPP +100 ACTIONS AND 1HOUR = 15 SUICIDES + 3 RAPES + 0 ACTIONS
Before newspapers published the details of the Facebook -
Whatsapp deal; the applications themselves posted it and the word spread like a
fire. Every 7 year old kid is aware of it, forget about others. Later, on the night of 22nd
February, 2014 there was some server issue with Whatsapp and the hype it created
was flabbergasting. Many people got onto Facebook to confirm that it was a
general problem and not their individual problem (after being confirmed they were obviously
relieved), groups and fan pages started uploading funny images mocking at the Whatsapp buyout and the digital star - Mark Zuckerberg. The gloomy reaction was as if “The
Whatsapp” was their virtual cosmos and somebody had just taken away their life from them.
It made me wonder for
quite a lot of time how fast the people were in creating the much needed
awareness and hats off to their Zuckerberg loyalty.
But I was thinking on the separate
lines. What disturbed me were some of the gruesome facts –
- · - A crime is recorded every three minutes in India.
- · Every 22 minutes a woman is raped somewhere in India, every 76 minutes one child gets raped and every six hours a girl is subjected to domestic violence.
- · - 15 Suicides took place every one hour during the year 2012. (More than one lakh persons (1, 35,445) in the country lost their lives by committing suicide during the year 2012). It is observed that social and economic causes have led most of the males to commit suicides whereas emotional and personal causes have mainly driven females to end their lives.
- · - A total 3, 94,982 accidental deaths were reported in the country during the year 2012.
- · 2,44,270 cases were registered for various crimes against women during 2012 which includes - rape, abduction, kidnapping, dowry deaths, assault, insult to the modesty of women, cruelty by husbands, importation of girls, immoral traffic, commission of Sati and Indecent representation of women.
- · - 3,823 murders have been recorded in the category of the people aged above 50 years during 2008-2012 and 311 victims of culpable homicide not amounting to murder & kidnapping & abduction have been recorded in the category of the people aged above 50 years during 2009-2012.
It is strange for a
nation like India to hype the non functionality of a message application just for
an hour, wherein almost 3 girls are raped and 20 crimes are committed in an hour
all over the nation. It pinches deeply to notice that the people lately have been too busy to read or share a word of wisdom with the community and spread
awareness of what’s happening around but the same people have enough time to
chat on such messengers and even complain for its non performance. Had they complained
for the non performance of the country, we’d have seen India as one of the
developed countries long back.
Mistakes are pardonable
but once. But it is observed that these mistakes are being passed on from generation to
generation, as we youngsters are doing same things – talking about latest mobiles,
new software, originating a genre of music and dance, keeping a tab on famous
people and so on but we don’t know whom to vote, why to vote and the effects it
has on the entire nation for years and years to come. We have got our “Cool”
stuff to think about and the grave national issues are simply pretty uninteresting;
in the next decade or two we as well will be witnessed whining about the system
and the trend will go on and on like a legacy until we grab our minds now and
sit thinking about it.
Let us at least take a few moments out of our lives for
the real causes rather than the virtual ones. Although not everyone might want to work on it, but each one of us can spread the awareness and help campaign against evil. After all it’s
our society, our people and our nation struggling and the good thing is this hardship can be a
little short and easy, if and only if we start working on it hands in hands; for
it’s a weak person who simply blames the present system but a strong one acts
to change it for him and for the generations to come.
All in all, it’s never
wrong to be tech-freak or music lover or any goddamn thing, but it is also
important that we don’t get estranged with the things happening around us – we ought
to bring a whirlpool for every oh-so-wrong thing, be it Whatsapp, Facebook,
politics, the crimes in the country and the world and whatever wrong comes our way and perhaps show our fidelity towards the online and the offline world.
(Source of Data - National
Crime Records Bureau, India)
Sunday, 16 February 2014
Confession with Confusion
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Each one of us masters in mystification. But being confused
rightly is the art we need to learn. You'll be surprised to know that the
majority of us are unaware of this particular skill and perhaps in trouble.
Don’t suspect what you just read, believe me you can own your confusions; for it's
absolutely okay to be confused but wittily. Once I asked a friend of mine, who
was recently dumped by her boyfriend if she still loved him? She was pretty
unsure of the answer and she said - "I know he has left me abruptly and
that leaves him no room in my life." I asked her further, "Does that
mean you don't love him?" Reflecting what to respond she got quite low and
she subtly answered - "I don't know may be yes I do love him." Her feelings were a sort of labyrinth and so her life. Isn't it
silly to be knowingly confused for the contemptible love? If she had to be
confused she could have chose some better reason for that. Knowing a person isn't worth it, why to baffle emotions? Had she said - “It’s him- the right guy,
but I don’t love him, so I ain't sure if I should go ahead.” This confusion
sounds much better and simpler than the previous one, isn't it? It’s a palpable
one.The point is bewilderment is good enough when there is a real call
for. Ridiculous confusions lead us to wrong confessions in every arena of life,
which ultimately puts us on for wrong decisions and wrong inferences. It annihilates
our everyday life. When you know something needs to be off, put if off
gracefully. Strain out perplexity only in the situations you know something
needs to be done and then confess your confusions to people close to you and
they’ll help you sort out the witty ones and do away with the baseless things.
Think over the real problems and act on them like a knight in armour. I
recently read on some social website - 88% of problems are self-created and I
bet many of them arise out of self inflicted confusions.
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It’s said with practice everything becomes a habit. We need to
train our minds day after day to think the right things and practise the art of
judging the witty confusions and turning them into a confession. You must be
wondering why to confess the confusions, right? The science of confession plays
an inevitable role to chuck out confusions and sort out a person’s brain. While
confessing you’ll realise out of 10, approximately 3 things hadn't any need to
be mentioned, approximately 4 things are simply because of over thinking or
kind of mental/ emotional weariness; merely 3 things crave for your honest
attention. Opening up makes us shrewd, pure and simple.
Just remember, a level-headed man energises its thoughts only for rational confusions and sets apart the unreasonable ones and you categorically ought to be one of them.
Just remember, a level-headed man energises its thoughts only for rational confusions and sets apart the unreasonable ones and you categorically ought to be one of them.
Friday, 6 December 2013
God- Mysterious yet your own.
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